While we might not be contributing to the posted topic, we ARE trying to help the person who posted it be heard. Regardless of how the posts make you
feel, we know what we're doing and why. I'm sorry that our method of trying to help upsets you, obviously that isn't our goal... but, I also can't... do anything about that. Your feelings are your feelings and you can feel whatever way you like about things.
But the fact that you interpret/hear what we say as snarky or shitty or whatever it is, in your own head, is very much on you. You're making an assumption about our tone, our intent, our attitude, and let me be clear, it is an assumption, and it is a
wrong assumption. I like to help people and I'm not sorry about that.
Funny bit, though... You mention that we could just ignore the posts, and you're right. We could. We're choosing not to because we wish to help. That's our choice and we're not hurting you by doing so. The irony, of course, is you could just... ignore our posts, too....... Just saying. You could literally just block me, and never have to see anything I post ever again. If we're truly upsetting you that much, and it would help you, then I would encourage you to do so.
Good luck!